Communication = Reconciliation --- Really????

                      

The first to apologize is the bravest
The first to forgive is the strongest
The first to forget is the happiest






                          While communication and talking about things would settle some issues in a relationship,it might also add fuel to the fire.Discussing the problems would go in vain if the main purpose does not lie in reconciliation, but on satisfying one's ego by mortifying the dignity of the other person.Every human being thinks that one is correct in her/his opinion despite all the odds.It would be better if we remain calm and start to think by putting ourselves in the other person's shoes.The most important thing we must remember is that we are not dealing with words but at the same time meddling with one's pride, feelings and emotions.
                          Nowadays some take people for granted, not caring the least about their feelings and when questioned about this kind of attitude they shoot "We are straight forward".As if it is a 'virtue'.What they don't realize is that it is easy to shout at others, but difficult to be patient and forgiving.It is easy to spit words of hatred but difficult to gather them back.It is east to wound someone's heart but difficult to heal the pain caused by it.It is easy to break a relationship but it takes a great deal to bring back the once-cherished-love.